Welcome aboard Koolhand.
I don't hate any particular ref. There are bad ones all over the place. A lot of them seem to stick in the BSC.
To me, what makes a bad ref is when they think they are bigger than the game, that the crowd showed up to watch them, that the coaches are their enemy, and when they act like they have never made a mistake. Its sort of like the BYU attitude gone wild.
Give me a ref that knows he/she makes mistakes, that understands the preshure these kids and coaches are under, and that can show a little respect for everyone involved in the game. Someone who respects the game and all of those who contribute, including the spectators. There are some of those kind of refs around as well. They just get shown up by the others. It would help a lot if the NCAA would take it over and not let the conferences do it. The refs we see, game in a nd game out, wouldn't last two games in the Big 12. If they did last longer in some of these larger venues, they would become better refs. They just get away with murder in the BSC. Some of them may actually be dirty. If they are not, they sure give that impression.