I was raised by my father with an "old school" approach, being told stuff like "Let your play do the talking" and "Act like you've been there before". So naturally I never really understood why these players hold out the way they do, it makes them look foolish and immature for not playing out their contract (the official definition of the word is "an agreement between two or more parties for the doing or not doing of something specified") but now as I get older I understand why players do it.
Let me also say that only NFL players should hold out. They are the ones who risk a high amount of physical danger to their body and minds, and often feel effects after their playing careers are over (see: Romanowski, Bill). Sure, the money they make seems like a lot to you and me, but when you live in that lifestyle, then must come up with all that money to help pay for the long medical bill after a long list of injuries sustained from all those years of violent contact, it is understood why guys try and hold out for more money. At any given moment a career can end, so these guys have every right to get each penny they are worth. Sure, Vincent isn't being casted in a good light because of his prior off-the-field issues, but the man hasn't had any violent crimes in his past, I am a strong believer in giving people chances to turn it around. So I hope the Chargers can pay this man, and in a perfect world, I hope he can one day endorse this University that took a chance on him when a lot of the big schools did not. But I wish him the best of luck in the future, both on and off the field.